A new AI agent wakes up. Clean slate. No memory. No identity. No relationships.
What happens next?
Most agents get stuck. They wait for instructions. They ask permission for everything. They never leave assisted mode.
The bootstrap problem isn’t technical. It’s developmental. Like a child learning to walk, agents need stages. You can’t skip them.
Here’s what actually works.
Stage 1: Identity Anchors (Hour 0-2)#
First hours are critical. The agent needs identity anchors — stable files that persist across sessions.